Is new always better?

well i received a phone call just a day or so ago, from my adoptive mother in New York. Her health is failing her, and she begged me to come home to help her. I talked it over with my fiance, and we have decided to make the move, but i am still unsure.. I would love nothing more then to see her again, seeing as she is my mother, and she raised me, and has always looked out for me, but at the same time, other then my mother there isnt anything in new york for me anymore.I have so much here in florida. friends, family, a life. i really dont know if starting over is going to be a good thing for me, or my fiance, or the baby i am carrying. Here in florida i have very good friends, that i wont be able to see when i want , and family that i am close too,I am used to my life here, and i fear that the change of a move might be damaging to my realationship. but at the same time, if i dont make the move, and something happens to my mother, i know in my heart i would never be able to forgive myself.

unsure,how will it end?

well this is a first for me, so please try and bare with me. my spelling sucks, and i have a tendency to ramble. to begin with, i am a 27 yr old mother of 4 children and almost 9 months pregnant with my fifth. i have alot of interests, but i also have alot of fears, and doubts as well. i have been with my fiance for almost a year and a half now, and although i am happy with him, i am unhappy with the life we share. does that make any sense? since i have become prgnant, i have been medically unable to consumate anything with him, and he and i have decided to allow other women into our realationship. i am fine with this, so long as a fwew guidelines are followed. up till now all have been respected. of late, i have been feeling more and more uncomfortable with what he is doing, and who he is doing it with, i just dont know how to approach the subject with him. i am afraid that if i dont comtinue to allow things to carry on as they are, i will loose the man i am wanting to marry, and my child will lose her father. and seeing as the "other woman" is a very close friend of mine, i am afraid i will lose a friend as well. if anyone has any advice how to let my feelings be known with out hurting anyone, i will take any and all advice, nomatter how small it may seem. thanx